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Patty Alessi

Transformational Breath®, Reiki, The Work® and Life Coaching


About Patty

When Patty Alessi started her professional life, she worked as a hairstylist on Long Island, New York. But after experiencing serious health challenges, she began to explore alternative ways of healing herself—and soon realized she wanted to share those tools with others. 

For Patty, this has become a labor of love. Her work philosophy can be summarized in one sentence: Wellness and Light to You and Yours!



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Transformational Breath®

Transformational Breath® is a powerful tool that you can use for physical, mental-emotional, and spiritual wellbeing. It is a unique form of breathwork that can help transform negative patterns by allowing you to access and integrate emotional and physical trauma stored in the body. 


On the physical level, full, connected diaphragmatic breathing has been shown to lower blood pressure, improve heart health, reduce stress and anxiety, boost immunity and increase energy levels. It can also help to enhance the quality of sleep, sharpen cognitive function and promote feelings of joy and happiness. 


On a spiritual level, full, conscious, connected diaphragmatic breathing can help to connect us with our higher selves and tap into expanded awareness. It is a powerful tool for self-healing and personal transformation. If you are looking for a way to improve your overall wellbeing, Transformational Breath® is a great place to start.


Reiki is a Japanese stress reduction and relaxation technique that promotes healing. It is administered by "laying on hands" and is based on the idea that an unseen "life force energy" flows through us and is what causes us to be alive. If one's "life force energy" is low, then we are more likely to get sick or feel stressed, and if it is high, we are more capable of being happy and healthy.

The word Reiki is made of two Japanese words - Rei, which means "God's Wisdom or the Higher Power," and Ki which is "life force energy." So Reiki is actually "spiritually guided life force energy."

A treatment feels like a wonderful glowing radiance that flows through and around you. Reiki treats the whole person, including body, emotions, mind, and spirit, creating many beneficial effects, including relaxation and feelings of peace, security, and wellbeing. Many have reported miraculous results.

The Work®

The Work® is a simple yet powerful practice of listening to the answers inside yourself; and opening your mind to profound, spacious, and life-transforming insights.


The Work is simply four questions that, when applied to a specific problem, enable you to see what is troubling you in an entirely different light. As we do The Work of Byron Katie, not only do we remain alert to our stressful thoughts—the ones that cause all the anger, sadness, and frustration in our world—but we question them, and through that questioning, the thoughts lose their power over us.


Great spiritual texts describe what it means to be free. The Work is the how. It shows you exactly how to identify and question any thought that would keep you from that freedom.

The Work is meditation. It is a method of inquiry born directly out of Byron Katie’s experience. This practice allows you to access the wisdom that always exists within you.

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Life Coaching

Life Coaching can help you achieve your goals, overcome challenges, and create a truly fulfilling life. Here's what you can expect from a coaching relationship:


First and foremost, coaching is a collaborative process. We'll work together to identify your goals and create an action plan. I'll provide guidance and support, but it's up to you to take action and make things happen.


 Coaching is also flexible. If you need to change your goals or modify the plan, that's no problem. We'll work together to find a solution that meets your needs.

If you have any other questions, please don't hesitate to contact me. I'm excited to help you achieve your dreams!


Guided meditation is a great way to relax and focus your mind. A personalized guided meditation can be especially helpful, as it will be tailored specifically to your needs.


In a personal session, I will work with you to create a guided meditation that addresses your specific concerns. This may include techniques to help you relax, visualization exercises, or affirmations that are meaningful to you.


We can also discuss any other ways you might like to use guided meditation, such as for stress relief or deep relaxation.

Reiki Certification

Reiki certification is a process through which you can become a certified Reiki practitioner.


There are many different programs available, and you can find one that fits your needs and learning style. In my program, you will learn about the history of Reiki, the energy system of the body, how to give a treatment, and more.


You will also receive hands-on experience in providing treatments to others. Upon completion of the program, you will be a certified Reiki practitioner and will be able to use the Reiki healing energy in your own life and to help others.


Thank you for sharing your love, kindness, spirituality, humor, guidance and beauty with me at the School for the work, your lovely workshops, in private sessions, and just being available in every way.  I would trust you with my deepest secrets.  Since the first day I met you to now you have been a genuine teacher, and friend. With true appreciation and love.

Dave Leader

The Work of Byron Katie® cuts through the layers of misdirected thought like a laser, but without a guide, I could still get lost in my thinking, justifying and defending. Patti gently and creatively shines the light of all the tools of The Work of Byron Katie® on deep knots of suffering in my thinking. She made it possible for me to safely face what I would avoid on my own. Thank you, Patti!

Susan Center, Moriches, N.Y.

One day I sat with Patty in Washington Square Park, where she held the space for me as I worked with thoughts that were making me sad. I remember looking into her beautiful blue eyes as she asked me, "Is it true?" In that instant, the whole world as I knew it fell away. If you want to know your own truth, spend some time with the love incarnate that is Patty Alessi.

Carol L. Skolnick, Clear Life Solutions


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